Two years ago, J.Lo’s dream came true when she married what seemed to be “the love of her life.” The couple was instantly dubbed Bennifer 2.0, and romantics around the world shed tears of joy over their happily-ever-after story.
However, getting married isn’t all that difficult—J.Lo herself has done it 4 times. What she hasn’t been able to do, though, is stay married. Why does this keep happening, and was marrying Ben really the right choice?
Let’s dig in!
The first thing to consider is their archetypes. Both Jen and Ben are 6. And that already indicates certain challenges. It’s not rare for people with the same archetype to be drawn to each other—they're so similar and have so much in common.
But that also means they share the same problems. Seeing a living example of your own flaws every day is quite the challenge. Of course, it’s possible to work through this, but it requires a certain level of self-awareness and a deep understanding of oneself.
The number 6 has a very interesting distinctive feature.
It is ruled by the planet Venus, which is all about beauty, attraction, and love.
People 6 often find themselves as the object of romantic and sexual attraction throughout their lives. Many people 6 actively use this to their advantage to achieve their goals and genuinely enjoy the attention they receive.
Now, imagine a couple where both individuals love being in the spotlight. Both of them enjoy receiving attention far more than giving it.
So what are the options here?
Either over time, a lack of attention will become a source of conflict, or they will learn to give more in the relationship than they take. The second option, of course, is an example of spiritual growth and building deep relationships. But does everyone have the desire to do that?
Let’s take a closer look at each of them individually, and examine the full profiles of Jen and Ben.
J.Lo has a 6/2 profile. We've already discussed that 6 is related to Venus, and 2 is related to the Moon.
What does this mean? It represents the essence of feminine energy, as both the Moon (2) and Venus (6) embody different aspects of femininity.
We’ve talked about the life path number 2 before, particularly when discussing the Ambani wedding. One characteristic of this placement is having more than one marriage. In this regard, J.Lo has certainly exceeded all expectations.
So, what’s the unique aspect here? People with 6/2 profile are true romantics. They love the emotions that come at the beginning of a relationship—all those butterflies in the stomach, and so on. But when the routine of married life sets in, when everything seems predictable, and there’s no more intrigue or exciting anticipation, these people can start to feel an overwhelming sense of boredom.
People with a life path number 2 want to constantly live in a romantic comedy, where the emotions never fade. And if this atmosphere isn’t maintained after the wedding, it begins to eat away at them from the inside. Such a person might start demanding these kinds of gestures from their partner or even provoke arguments just to feel something—anything. But what happens even more often is that they start seeking those emotions elsewhere, which often leads to a second marriage.
Now, imagine a combination of the sexuality of Venus and the romanticism of the Moon. Not everyone can handle being around such a person.
At first, it’s a complete whirlwind, with hormones raging, making you feel like you’ve never truly loved before. But over time, this intensity can become exhausting, and not just a little. It starts to feel like it’s time to move to the next stage of the relationship, to develop, to go deeper. But the partner isn’t ready for that; they want to stay in that initial phase, constantly raising the emotional stakes.
I have a suspicion that even after all these years, J.Lo still hasn’t understood what a real relationship is and keeps making the same mistakes.
With Ben, things get even more interesting because he has a 6/6 profile. This means that in his past life, he didn’t fulfill his karmic duties. As a result, in this incarnation, he has the same soul and life path number.
What didn’t he learn? The lessons of Venus, the most significant of which is true love.
People with a life path number of 6 are often considered life’s favorites. They come into this world with a large reserve of good karma, giving them the opportunity to enjoy life.
This actually has a deeper meaning—when your basic needs are met, it’s much easier to focus on spiritual practice. And what could be more spiritual than unconditional love?
However, not all people with a life path number of 6 understand this. They often spend their lives indulging in pleasures, unaware that good karma can eventually run out.
It seems that Ben, too, has yet to realize his true mission. He’s been adored by women, and that’s always been the case. But he tends to take this adoration for granted, without putting in much effort in return.
So, a self-obsessed person and a love-obsessed person met.
One didn’t want to make any effort at all, while the other tried way too hard. And that’s how they eventually ended up irritating each other.
Was it worth getting married? If each of them had figured themselves out, maybe something could have worked out. But overall, a relationship between two people with the same archetype 6 rarely ends well. Such relationships are considered difficult and require serious self-work from both partners.
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